Talk With Laurie

Build Something That Doesn't Need You: Succession, Self-Awareness, and Letting Go

Season #14

Succession planning is easy to celebrate when it's theoretical. It gets considerably more complicated when the succession is your own.

Most leaders agree, in principle, that we should develop our people, delegate well, and build bench strength. Far fewer talk honestly about what that eventually requires: giving away authority, visibility, relationships, credit, and sometimes even the role itself.

In this solo episode of the Growth Edge Leadership Podcast, I share a chapter of my own career story. As the founding Program Director of the healthcare Executive MBA program at Creighton University, I had what I often called a dream job. I am a builder, and building that program from an idea into something real was some of the most energizing work of my career. But as the program matured, so did the leadership it needed, and I had to be honest with myself about where my strengths were greatest.

I talk about hiring with a longer horizon in mind, intentionally developing a successor, and, in essence, working myself out of a job. I also don't romanticize it. There are real career risks to making yourself replaceable, and organizations don't always reward the leaders who build capacity underneath themselves. That was not my reality, but I have unfortunately observed it elsewhere.

Along the way, I explore why being needed so often feels like being valuable, why dependency and leadership are not the same thing, and how leaders grow from doer to leader to developer to capacity builder. I close with three practical questions to help you identify what still depends on you, and what it might take to let someone else carry it forward.

Key Takeaways

  • Succession is easy to endorse in theory and personal in practice. Developing others eventually requires giving something away: authority, visibility, relationships, decisions, opportunities, credit, and sometimes the role itself.
  • Know which season you are best equipped to lead. Building something and sustaining it call for different strengths. Self-awareness helps us recognize when the work needs something different from us.
  • Hire for the next chapter, not only this year's work. Look for people with the capacity to grow into, and alongside, what you are building.
  • Make success belong to the work, not to you. Make sure key relationships and processes don't live exclusively with you or in your head.
  • Dependency and leadership are not the same thing. If everything depends on you, you may have created a bottleneck. Your team can't move, decide, or stretch until you do.
  • Leadership growth moves from doer to leader to developer to capacity builder. The question shifts from "What can I accomplish?" to "What can happen because I developed someone else to accomplish it?"
  • Being needed can be intoxicating. Solving every problem feels productive, but every time we immediately provide the answer, we strengthen someone's dependence on us. Coaching them toward their own answer strengthens their capacity.
  • Three questions to begin: What still depends on you that shouldn't? Who are you intentionally making more capable? And what are you afraid will happen if people need you less?